Reviving Chivalry: C's Story

from a male perspective...

Things you should do with gusto when it comes to dating!
1. If you know the girl, you like the girl and she knows you. Just ask her out!!
2. Don't have a plan! Plans leave no room for being spontaneous.
3. Ask questions. The best way to have a great date is to know what she and you like together.
4. Be a leader (I shouldn't have to elaborate on this).
5. Be considerate. Work hours, workouts and commitments may make it impossible for you to go out every week. Down times are also good (No one is signing up for triathlon dating)
6. Be fearless. The girl you like may say no. In fact many girls you like may say no. Just don't let it stop you. As every girl has told me. Time can change a woman's perspective on a guy.

Even today. Girls still like a guy to hold the door for them. Get out of the car and meet them at the front door. Take off their hat when introduced. Stand up when they leave the table. Pay for the meal. Slow dance to their favorite song. And walk them back to their door. Let's not be fearful of being gentlemen.

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